Here we are, we have arrived at the last
part of this series about borderline and clinging to relationships. Did you
have a chance to read my last two blog posts? If not, you can read part one
here and part two here.
The best strategy for everybody suffering from
abandoning anxiety; there are alternatives. Think about that gray area I talked
about in my last blog post. When you are single you can do everything you wish
and you can date others, in moderation of course. You can go out with your friends
more, because you spend less time hanging out with your lover on the weekends.
You can post that awesome picture of yourself without French kissing with your
boyfriend or girlfriend.
Let’s think about it this way! That vision
you had, so great so romantic with the love of your life, or let’s say your ex?
That vision will get back to you eventually with the right person in it. And another
thing, where did our favorite quote “An individual is the strongest when on its
own”? People with Borderline Personality Disorder do not believe in that, but
of course they really want to. If you do not believe in the quote I just
mentioned you drive yourself crazy, see people with BPD can have a very heavy
response to the loss of a relationship.
Let’s not go too deep here. It is also
understandable, because someone having BPD is attaching so much importance to
his or her partner by the extreme amount of love. This is a beautiful thing and
this amount of love you can pass on to another person. Just keep on fighting,
no matter how bad a situation is. No matter how many relationships you will
lose, you will find your true love in the end. Trust me.
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Forest
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